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Mood:
Mourning
Listening to: Placebo - Bitter End
Reading: Siddhartha - Herman Hesse
Watching: Dogville
Some several days ago, a deviant told me that bisexuals always give the most honest answers.
That was sort of appauling. Flattering, but appauling. Somewhat ironic, as well, because bisexuals are also never taken seriously.
Apparently, there's people who are straight, people who are gay, and people in the grey, sitting on the fence undecided (the bisexuals). Either they're uncomfortable with being either one or the other, or they simply can't decide which they prefer.
It is also said that the majority of bisexual girls actually prefer men over women, and probably aren't really bisexual anyway. On the same note, bisexual men also prefer men over women, and probably aren't really bisexual anyway.
My answer to that: they're not really bisexual.
Before I get flamed by bisexuals, let me mention that I'm labelled one as well. My point is, nobody can be completely straight or gay; otherwise, straight people would be deathly afraid of members of the same sex. But anyway, if you 'prefer' one over the other, 'leaning' you might say, then you're probably either gay or straight. I don't find it unreasonable to consider yourself gay and still consider possibly dating members of the opposite sex.
I guess if anyone who considered both sexes equally would be bisexual. This applies to a very few people though, almost everybody leans. I don't really lean, or prefer, or even give any thought whatsoever about gender. But I don't really like to consider myself bisexual either, because I don't go after genders, I go after personalities, intellect and individualism. If people ever took me seriously in the first place, I would tell them I was neither heterosexual, nor homosexual, nor bisexual. Nor asexual. I would simply say I was 'sexual'. We're all sexual, aren't we? If I love someone, I love them. I could care less what sort of private bits they have, since it's honestly not important. Attraction is about hormones, and if my hormones don't seem to care, than neither do I. What is so hard for people to accept about bisexuals? I mean, bisexuals are even more frowned upon than gay people. They're even frowned upon
by gay people.
I don't think people need to suppose things of me either. Just because I'm bisexual doesn't mean I'm rebellious, independent, more masculine than gay but more feminine than straight. Being in Japan, I've discovered straight people have the ability to be stunningly feminine. Just as much, gay people can be so assholishly masculine. Yes, I'm unconditionally and dangerously honest, but it's not because I'm bisexual. I'm not bisexual because I can't decide, or because I want that extra bit of attention. I'm not bisexual to have more dating opportunities either.
One reason why I'm personally not taken seriously is because I haven't dated a girl for 2 years. Ok, so I had a couple of consecutive, long-running relationships with guys. I only 'discovered' my homosexual tendencies two years ago. Heh, that's kind of funny, I met a gay guy for the first time two years ago, when I transferred from a jockey county school to an artsy city school. Figures, huh?
I don't even have a point to this journal entry anymore. What was I trying to get at? I think I already disproved my own arguments. Fuck.
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My devFamily:
Deviants whom I look up to and praise for their endless support and talents, the Big4:
Stunning Deviants whom I keep a close eye on (you should too):
My ever-growing list of clubs to which I belong:
My Pencil-medium club, for pencil/charcoal/etc.-based drawing!:
How SWEET it is!
YAAAHOOOO!!
